And fuck off whoever that tells me again to set up my own instance. What I want is popular instance admins and mods to

Seriously though you’re making demands that other people work for free in a manner that will benefit you.

Way I see it, either take some of the free lunch that’s on offer or make your own.

free speech instances that get defederated at the speed of light are of no use.

I use lemmy.today. The instance policy there is to try to avoid any defederation, and thus far, it has an empty blocklist.

Now, that doesn’t mean that there won’t also be instances that will defederate with your favorite instance. But, you know, people aren’t required to listen. You can only speak to people who want to hear what you want to say. I think that that’s probably really the only reasonable way for things to work. I mean, even user-level user blocking and choosing what communities to view is a form of filtering content.

And there’s no seamless multiaccount Lemmy client yet.

…except all of them. At least for Android.

Here’s the one’s I’ve used with seamless multiaccount functionality: Liftoff (RIP), Jerboa, Thunder, Connect, Boost, and Voyager

Sync too, but I only used it briefly because fuck ads.